Ep. 99 – When Your Child Says They Want To Shoot Up the School!
In the episode “Ep. 99 – When Your Child Says They Want To Shoot Up the School!” from the Empowering Choices podcast, hosts Joshua and Lucas delve into the alarming statement a child might make about violence and how parents can effectively respond. The episode begins with a stark reminder of the gravity of such statements. “You want to hear your child say, I don’t,” Lucas reflects on the shock and concern such a statement would understandably provoke among parents.
The discussion quickly turns to the importance of understanding the underlying issues that might lead a child to make such disturbing claims. Erik, contributing his expertise, emphasizes the necessity of parents to dig deeper into what might be driving their child’s behavior rather than simply reacting. “It’s going to the notes,” Erik agrees, suggesting that even provocative statements can be a critical entry point for deeper communication between parents and children.
Throughout the episode, the hosts explore various scenarios where children expressed extreme statements or behaviors as a cry for help or as a response to bullying or isolation. Lucas shares a story about a client whose child threatened violence due to severe frustration and feeling misunderstood at school. This leads to a broader discussion on the proactive steps parents can take, including ensuring any potential means of harm, like firearms or sharp objects, are securely locked away and inaccessible to children.
The hosts also discuss the power of preemptive and supportive parenting. Erik recounts personal anecdotes where establishing a trusting and open environment helped children feel supported and less isolated. “Your kid wants to connect with you,” Erik states, highlighting the power of acceptance and understanding in preventing drastic actions like those discussed.
The episode wraps up with practical advice for parents on maintaining security while also building a strong relational foundation with their children. Joshua concludes, “Make sure that they don’t have things that they could do things with, tell people if need be, but often it sounds like statements are being made when there’s really deeper issues.” This powerful episode not only addresses immediate safety concerns but also advocates for a compassionate, in-depth approach to parenting that can preemptively address children’s distress and emotional turmoil.
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